Tuesday, March 30, 2004
dearest girlfriends,
i am in such a state now... i don't even know how to explain. i feel like a hermit. i miss spending time with friends. i miss having friends around me. it's depressing. you can't possibly imagine how alone i feel. it's like my support structure is non-existent. i miss you girls. i've got 2 tests later in the day and i can't be buggered to study. i simply haven't the mood.
anyway, dear qingya, don't get too depressed about dara alright? yes, i agree with gayle. she sounds neurotic and insecure. she's prob so used to being like that that she doesn't know how to deal with such a confrontation. she's just trying to find a way out and blaming it on you. perhaps it is best that she moves out, so you can have your peace and she can have time to think about the whole situation and realise how much you have been there for her and that she does have a problem. but keep in mind this is not a problem that will go away overnight. Let her be and know that you have done yoru part as a friend and if possible, be there for her when she needs you but don't make her problem your problem. i'm sure you have enough on your mind. sometimes i feel the most help you can be to a friend in such a situation is to throw them in the ocean and let them learn to swim on their own, not literally of course. and do take into account that i think she is trying. i really think so. the fact that after hanging up on you, you guys actually managed to spend almost the entire day together and having fun. she's still lapsing into her old habits but i think she's trying! don't fret, dear, all of us here all love you and know you did what you had to do and we appreciate you.
stel: i think that's a pretty cool idea. then as the years go on, we can have mire and more volumes....hahaha....we'll feel so stupid reading back at the entries 10 years down the road
i am in such a state now... i don't even know how to explain. i feel like a hermit. i miss spending time with friends. i miss having friends around me. it's depressing. you can't possibly imagine how alone i feel. it's like my support structure is non-existent. i miss you girls. i've got 2 tests later in the day and i can't be buggered to study. i simply haven't the mood.
anyway, dear qingya, don't get too depressed about dara alright? yes, i agree with gayle. she sounds neurotic and insecure. she's prob so used to being like that that she doesn't know how to deal with such a confrontation. she's just trying to find a way out and blaming it on you. perhaps it is best that she moves out, so you can have your peace and she can have time to think about the whole situation and realise how much you have been there for her and that she does have a problem. but keep in mind this is not a problem that will go away overnight. Let her be and know that you have done yoru part as a friend and if possible, be there for her when she needs you but don't make her problem your problem. i'm sure you have enough on your mind. sometimes i feel the most help you can be to a friend in such a situation is to throw them in the ocean and let them learn to swim on their own, not literally of course. and do take into account that i think she is trying. i really think so. the fact that after hanging up on you, you guys actually managed to spend almost the entire day together and having fun. she's still lapsing into her old habits but i think she's trying! don't fret, dear, all of us here all love you and know you did what you had to do and we appreciate you.
stel: i think that's a pretty cool idea. then as the years go on, we can have mire and more volumes....hahaha....we'll feel so stupid reading back at the entries 10 years down the road
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